You love her.That was never the question.
One night at home. You give her a massage, cue cards beside you, and when you are done, dinner is on the table. We plan it on one call, set the room while she is out, and are gone before she is home. The next morning we take it all away.
We take five bookings a month. Our first five are $2,500; after that, $3,500. $500 holds your slot, refundable until we confirm your date.
For a man in Dallas with her birthday or your anniversary in the next sixty days.
You love her, and she knows it. She also knows you have been gone since six and home since nine for most of this year. Money is easy for you now, which is why the necklace lands a little softer each time. What she has not had in a while is an evening where your attention was the whole point.
How the night works
The planning call. Twenty minutes, within two days of your deposit. We ask about her: what she loves, what she cannot eat, the date, and how you will get her out of the house for an afternoon. We draft the card with you, in your words. Once the date is confirmed, your deposit becomes the first part of the price.
Two weeks out. The balance is due and we order the food and the flowers. Your cue cards and a five-minute practice video arrive.
The afternoon. We arrive while she is out. The massage table, the oils, the towels and linens, the candles, the scent, the music, the flowers, the dinner table laid and the food plated to your instructions. We are gone before she is home.
The night. This part is yours. She comes home to a room she does not recognise, and you are the reason. You hand her the card. You give her the massage, cue cards beside you. When you are done, dinner is on the table.
The morning after. We come back at the time we agreed and take everything away. The house looks like it did yesterday.
The part that has to be yours
Everything on this page could be done by someone else, except one thing. The moment you are after, when she realises you did this, only exists if the hands are yours.
So we make sure you are not guessing. On the call, we walk through the massage step by step. Two weeks out, you get numbered cue cards and a five-minute video to watch the night before. On the night, the cards sit beside you. Twelve of them, one move each, in order. You do not have to remember anything. You just have to be there, with her, and nowhere else.
Shoulders.
Both hands flat, thumbs either side of her spine. Slow, from the neck down to the shoulder blades. Six times. Slower than feels natural.
Ask her: “Where do you carry the week?”
1 · From the neck
2 · Down to the shoulder blades
What is included
- The Planning Call.
- Twenty minutes with us about her. The date, the food, the card, the plan for the afternoon.
- The Setup.
- We set the room while she is out: candles, scent, music, the dinner table laid.
- The Massage Table, Oils and Linens.
- A professional massage table, essential oils, towels and fresh linens, brought in for the night and taken away with everything else.
- Dinner for Two, Delivered.
- From a Dallas kitchen we work with, plated to your instructions, so you serve it.
- The Flowers and Your Card.
- A full bouquet, and a handwritten card in your words. We draft it with you; you write it.
- Your Cue Cards and Practice Video.
- Twelve cards, one move each, and five minutes to watch the night before.
- Conversation Cards.
- For when the massage is done and dinner is on the table.
- The Morning After, Handled.
- We come back and take everything away.
- Our Discretion Promise.
- No photos. Nobody sees us arrive or leave. What we know about her stays with the night.
What it is not
Nobody else touches her. There is no therapist. Nothing arrives in a box for you to assemble. The night is yours; the hours around it are ours.
The price
$2,500 for our first five bookings. $3,500 after that.
We take five a month, because we set up and clear away every one ourselves, and we will not send anyone else into your home.
Holding a slot. $500 today. Fully refundable until we confirm your date on the call. The balance is due two weeks before the night, when we start ordering.
Our commitment. If the room, the food or the flowers are not what we agreed on the call, you do not pay for the night.
Questions men ask us
She will know you did not carry a table up the stairs. Everything she sees on the night is a choice you made on the call: the food, the flowers, the card in your handwriting, the massage from your hands. We handled the logistics. You handled her.
A professional massage table, oils and linens, an afternoon and a morning in your home, food from a kitchen we trust, flowers, and the hours of planning you do not have. The price is the night done properly, once.
The founders. For now we do every setup ourselves. We arrive at the time we agree, we take no photos, and we leave well before she is back.
We plan that on the call. It is usually an afternoon: a salon booking, a friend, an errand you invent. You will have a plan and a fallback before we hang up.
Then this is not the right night for her, and we would rather tell you that on the call than take your money. Ask her what she loves before you hold a slot.
A Dallas kitchen we work with prepares it. We plate it to your instructions before we leave, so when the massage is done, you serve it. Allergies and preferences are covered on the call.
From Irewole
I work more hours than I would choose, and I know exactly what a man like me does with money when he loves someone and has no time: spends it on her and calls it care. I do not want to be that man. I want to be the one who did it himself, with the room ready and the card in his handwriting. Intimacy is built by hand, in small deliberate acts nobody else could have done for you. Thoughtful Moments exists so that a man with no hours can still do the one thing that counts. We do everything else.
Irewole Akande, Dallas
Her date is coming.
Five bookings a month. $500 holds your slot, refundable until we confirm your date.
Not ready? Tell us about her.
Five questions. We send back a plan for the night and the price, and nothing else.